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I am at a crossroads in my life and I can’t make a decision

I quit my office job to follow my wife (who took early retirement) to a small rural town, where I have tried to follow my interest in photography. I am bored. I can’t make a living here. I miss having a mental challenge. I miss having a regular income. Hiking somewhere beautiful once a week is no longer enough. The nearest town is 60 miles away.
My wife has started to act emotionally abusive to me. I’m isolated and I have no one I can talk to about it. I no longer trust her with my thoughts and feelings, and yet I feel guilty over it.
I’m from another country. I haven’t visited in several years and I miss everything about it. I’m tired of feeling like an outsider all the time. I want to feel like I belong somewhere. My parents are getting old and frail. I moved here for my wife.
My life is relatively easy. We have no mortgage and can cover all bills, but not save anything. We don’t travel at all. Sometimes I hate the small town and small minds in it. I feel like I’m in jail here, but at the same time I do enjoy my hiking adventures.
If I leave and go back to my home country, I would pick a small city located near places I can hike and bike around. I would probably be a hobbyist photographer rather than a pro (I hate selling myself). I’m scared that I’ve been away from my career for too long, even though I recently took a refresher course in the software I used. I’m scared that I could find myself in my home country but broke and jobless. I’m equally scared that nothing will change here and I’ll always be miserable.

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Your Location: Colorado, USA
Your age range: 36-45
Your gender: Male
Do you prefer male or female coach? NP
Other areas of coaching you are interested in: (check all that apply) Career, Family/Relationships, Personal Growth
Most of our coaches offer a complimentary coaching session. How serious are you about working with a coach once you find the right fit? Just started looking
What are the 3 goals you’d like to reach in the next 6 months? To make my decision and be content with it
What are some obstacles that have kept you from meeting your goals? I feel trapped and indecisive
If you knew you wouldn’t fail, what would you love to do? I really don't know. I just want to live a happy, guilt-free life.
Describe what is working well in your life and what is not right now. I'm in the best physical shape of my life. Other than that, I feel absolutely unfullfilled and stuck.
Gain clarity of issues and/or help define goals 8
Understand what motivates you 812357
Explore what is holding you back 9
Gain insight into your strengths, capabilities and potential 5
Provide encouragement and support 122121217
Help strategize action and next steps 9
Challenge you with difficult questions 8
Provide honest and direct feedback 9
Hold you accountable for your goals 9

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